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The People’s Couch:  People Who Watch People Watching TV

 

Upon hearing the premise, you’d have to say “What an incredible waste of time”.

I mean, why on earth would anyone want to watch a television show that shows other people watching television?  Sure, there’s a slightly voyeuristic appeal to it.  I mean, how often do you get to spy into the private moments of others watching television?  Okay, on Bravo, pretty much daily.  But, this is not your typical reality show fare.

Then again, let’s look at the reality aspect of it and understand that, while unscripted, it’s not entirely reality.  The truth of the matter is, these fine people we are spying on are fully clothed.  Their hair is done.  Their houses are clean.  Now, take a look at yourself while watching late night television.  The likelihood that you are in your sloppy yoga pants, your hair in a scrunchie and dinner dishes still sitting in the sink is probably close to 100%.

However, that doesn’t make The People’s Couch any less unrealistic.  The reason you ARE tuned in is to watch the reactions of a cast of colorful characters making observations about the television shows you already watch.  Do you find yourself screaming at the television during a Real Housewives Reunion?  How about making completely inappropriate jokes during Survivor?  Funny observations during Game of Thrones?

These are the reasons you WANT to watch The People’s Couch.  There is a wonderfully delicious sense of camaraderie watching complete strangers make the same observations you are.  It provides for at least a dozen “laugh out loud” moments during the show.  And, like in real life, there is a cast member for everyone’s taste.

First, there are the families:
The Resnick Family, which includes a dad and his three very sassy daughters.  These girls are incredibly silly but always make great observations with hugely animated gestures.  Once in awhile, we are treated to a visit from mom joining them on the couch.  Still, always a big laugh when dad tries to force his testosterone opinion out among all that estrogen.  Poor guy barely gets a word out between them.

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The Zeno Family, which consists of Mom Princella and Dad Lamont and their snarky teen son, Rashawn.  Mom and Dad Zeno have been together for a long time, are still hopelessly in love, which makes for a lot of endearing yet embarrassing moments for their 19 year old son.  The star of this show?  Mama Zeno, who will randomly vacillate between interesting commentary, requests for foot massages and, much to Rashawn’s dismay, the sudden need to stand up and twerk.  But, Daddy likes!  Daddy likes!

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The Egber Family, the only family not on a “couch”, Mom Julie and Dad Andrew and their two youngest sons Sam and Jack, snuggle in one helluva large bed and make all sorts of inappropriate comments at the television.  The boys are quick witted, smart and pretty much know everything about everything. The joy in this family comes from Dad, who forever needs to be schooled in pop culture by his precocious sons.  Also, recently?  We’ve discovered that Mom can have quite the potty mouth now and then.  We love her for that!

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Amanda and Kenya, sisters who live together and often the ones providing the greatest laughs because they generally say what you would only dare to be thinking.  Most of their funny happens through twisted faces, rolling eyes, or contorting into crazy yoga type positions when they are cringing in horror.  Also, Kenya’s cry of “AAAH MAN duh!” whenever she is appalled or thoroughly amused.  They are also the favorites of all their fellow cast members!

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Cathy and Destiney, these Persian Princesses are absolutely eye candy.  Two beauties who are often indulging in new beauty products, face masks, wrapped updo hair styles.  Destiney is definitely the more outspoken of the two with Cathy her “straight man”, making dry humor observations of her sisters kooky assessments.  They also are compulsive pillow hoarders.

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Then, we have the friends of The People’s Couch:
“The Boys”, as they are affectionately referred to on Twitter is a group of three beautiful human beings named Blake, Scott and Emerson.  (Sorry, Ladies.  They’re just not that into you)  These three all have experience being in front of the camera before as they are all performers in some right.  All three are funny, sarcastic, flippant and always have some hysterically funny anecdotes to share.

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“The Girls” consist of besties Brandy and Julie.  Both ladies are also comediennes and have worked together often over the years.  You can tell this by the witty repartee that occurs between them.  The non stop banter is enhanced by the presence of their three little doggies and usually, two big glasses of wine.  *clink*  And no, they are NOT a couple, but you would never know.  They finish each others sentences like an old married couple and by sentences.

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Last, but not nearly least, “The Golden Girls”, another set of three besties, however, these dames are forces to be reckoned with.  The Golden Girls consist of Teddi, Ayn and Sue, three “women of a certain age” who watch television together from the comfort of their community couch.  These three are probably the most saucy of the bunch because, face it, when you are a woman of a certain age…you can kind of say whatever the hell you want.

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Shows that will be watched tonight, April 29th, 2014 will include:
Cutthroat Kitchen, Devious Maids, Long Island Medium, Deadliest Catch, Chrisley Knows Best and Million Dollar Listing New York.

So, if you aren’t watching The People’s Couch, you are missing what has slowly become the overnight sleeper cult sensation of 2014.  Tune in to BRAVO on Tuesday nights at 10 pm for a half an hour of the funniest show you will soon be addicted to.  And stay tuned at the end of tonight’s episode for a VERY special announcement!

Here, have a little taste:

http://www.bravotv.com/the-peoples-couch/season-1/videos/the-people-watch-mdlny

We’re talkin’ panties. No boys allowed…

unless you are a cross dresser, transvestite or drag queen.  Although, I would imagine the latter two would already know these tricks.  For some reason, drag queens know more about undergarments than the average biological woman does.

In that case, this article is for you, Frump a Dump.  We’re talking bras and panties here.  Sit back, take notes and then, go evaluate your lingerie drawer.  There will be a quiz at the end of this lecture, Bitches…so absorb!

Those of you who read regularly or know me “in real life” know I am a pretty fashionable chick.  I love fashion. I live for fashion.  I eat, breathe and sleep fashion. The only thing I don’t do is fuck fashion.  I save that kind of love for the Hotband exclusively.  Though, I do make sure to be fashionable WHILE fucking, if that accounts for any thing.  Bra and panties must not necessarily match…but they must be attractive.  Alluring.  Eye candy.

I am a big advocate that sexy starts from the inside out and that goes for clothes too.  If you start with a base of sexy lingerie, your “feel good” will shine through.  It’s always a sexy start to a great outfit.  When you throw on your basic frump a dump white sports bra and a pair of your big ol’ granny panties, you are starting with a canvas that just screams “I am going to feel shitty for the rest of the day.” If you start with a sweet lacy bra and a cute tanga panty or a flirty pair of boy short panties, you are going to have a sexy secret with you all day long.  Plus, you never know when your partner is going to grab hold of you for a “nooner” or a “quickie”.

Do you really wanna be caught out there in a pair of your oldest “Hanes Her Way”, with the tiny hole that lets two or three pubes escape?  The ones with the saggy, worn out elastic around the crotch?  Or, worse still…the ones that you wear during “that time of the month” that have the dark, shadowy remnants of all the times your pad didn’t do its job appropriately?

Don’t look at me like that. You know what I am talking about.  We all have a pair of those.

You should be ashamed of yourself.  Truly.

Once I had my hysterectomy, I threw out every single pair of underwear that qualified as “dust rags”.  Dumped them all.  Any thing that I purchased that came in a five pack?  Gone.  I figured, I am never going to destroy another pair of underwear ever again, ergo, I am going to invest in some of the prettiest panties I have ever owned.  I have tangas, boy shorts, T backs, bikini’s, high waist, french cut…some lacy, some in cotton, some patterned, some solid…but the one thing they all have in common?

They are all sexy.  All of them.  There will never be a time that I will be caught with my “pants down” (pun blatantly obvious) in the underwear department.  Same thing with the bras.  Girls, dump the bras that have twisted wires, an underwire poking through, the one that you pinned together because it’s your favorite.  Get rid of them.  All you need are two basic white bras, four basic nude bras and about four basic black bras.  Those are your staples.  After that, the rest of your bras should look like a circus threw up in your lingerie drawer.  Colors!  Lots and lots of colors!  Sure, with sheer blouses, these don’t work…but how often do you wear sheer blouses?  That’s where your basic colors come in.

And while we are on the subject of basics…here’s a tip for you, Sugar Tits.  White bras should only be worn under white blouses.  That’s it.  End of story.  Any other sheer blouses you own should have a NUDE bra underneath it.  You can even do a nude bra under a white blouse.  Same thing goes for your panties, doll faces.  Do not wear white panties under white pants.  It shows right through and draws a whole lot of attention to spots you don’t want attention drawn to.  Keep it nude.  Nude bras work under everything.  Don’t try to match your bras to your blouses.  For example…if you are wearing a sheer yellow blouse, don’t think you should wear a yellow bra beneath it.  It looks “udderly” ridiculous.  NUDE bras, girls.  Also, please…be mindful of your nipples.  If you have prominent nipples, do not wear a see through bra under your sheer blouses.  In the dim lighting of your bedroom as you dress in the morning, you won’t necessarily be seeing what all your co-workers will be seeing under the fluorescent lighting of your office.

The nude rule under sheer does not apply to black sheer blouses.  One would think this is common sense, but alas, it is not.  Black sheer needs a black bra.  Let me explain why.  We are living in a digital age, girls.  People are snapping photos all the time.  There is a horrible phenomenon called “headlights” and it is no longer the catchphrase for a pair of hardened nipples.  When a camera flash flashes…suddenly, whatever you are wearing beneath the sheer is going to become blatantly apparent.  Worse than your titties showing through your blouse is your bra being too light for the blouse you are wearing.  It makes these two “round disks” of light where your breasts should be.  This will end up on your friends and co-workers Facebook pages with all sorts of ridicule ranging from “nice high beams” to “look into the liiiiiight, Carolann…walk into the light!”

It is important to pay attention to your skin tone when dressing.  And while I am not normally one to endorse products I have not personally used, THIS website, called “My Skins”, offers you the opportunity to either download (not recommended) their color chart or order one by snail mail.  The reason I don’t suggest downloading the skin color chart is because if your computer does not have the right ink or the correct color settings, you are going to get skewed colors.  This chart will help you find the right color undergarment that best matches your skin tone.  If you choose to buy from this site, I will say, they ARE reasonably priced undergarments.  Their panties run to about a 44 inch hip (the XL is too small for me, but might fit some of you chicks with less endowed asses than mine).  Their bras run to a 38D…again, too small for me, but perfect for all of you who can shop Victoria’s Secret.  (You know what her secret is?  She has nothing in my size, that’s her secret.  Bitch.)  But, even if you don’t shop there…you can still use the color chart (free) to be able to match it to undergarments where you do shop.  I personally wear “Cappucino”…which is perfect for my olive skin tone.  Your skin color may vary. 

However, I have truly digressed.

The staples are the staples.  Every girl should have a base undergarment wardrobe that consists of neutrals that always work under the spring and summer lighter colors.  Where the colors come in are under things like tank tops, summer dresses with spaghetti or narrow straps or loose, flowing tunic tops.  There is nothing tackier than your bra straps hanging out from under any of the aforementioned things.  However, the way to go from tasteless to tactful is by using color.  If you are wearing a tank top with narrow straps and you are not a member of the itty bitty titty committee and can’t get away with a tiny bra, no bra or a strapless bra…you want to put on a bra with color in it!  Fun colors!  Wearing an orange tank?  Throw on a yellow bra so that if the shoulder slides away, you are looking at a pretty pop of color, not a dingy white bra strap.  If you make it look like you MEANT to make that sexy little fashion faux pas, it will be interpreted that way.

And, as everyone knows, perception IS reality.

PS:  The “pop of color” undergarment rule applies to casual wear. If you are wearing a chic little black dress or a formal white dress, keep your black undergarments with the LBD and a nude/white undergarment with the white dressy wear.  Do I need to explain this?  From the looks of what I see out there in the world, apparently, I do.

Wearing a black tank top?  Sure, you can grab your basic black bra.  But, if it slides to one side, everyone now sees that your tank doesn’t fit and you are not fooling any one with the black bra on.  Instead, have a hot pink bra on!  Pop of color!  Fun! Flirty!  A hint of color is sexy.  Trying to conceal a tank that is too big on you or doesn’t fit you correctly with a bra of the same color looks exactly that way.  If you have a tank that isn’t fitting you correctly, the correct remedy is…BUY THE RIGHT SIZE, Dumbass.  But, if you insist on wearing an ill fitting ANY thing…let me let you in on a little secret.

Camisoles.  And no, we ain’t talkin’ about your granmama’s camisole.  Not some lacy, slinky thing from the 40’s.  We’re talking a basic, cotton, thin strapped camisole.  Yes, it means layering your bra, your cami and then your tank…but at least you look appropriately dressed and not like you are trying to fit into something that you bought when you were 20 pounds lighter. Use them.  Have them in every color of the rainbow.  They cost barely more than $10 at Old Navy in all size from size 0 all the way up to a size 28. No excuses, girls.  Get them.  Use them.  Please.

The point is, if you start with a sexy base, you will feel good in what you wear all day long.  There is a lot of truth to the adage that beauty comes from the inside.  That applies to your clothing as well.  If you have a sweet little secret under your clothes, you will have a sly smile on your face all day long.  You will have this gorgeous air of confidence and radiance that will make you look tremendously better the whole day through.  When you feel better about what you are wearing, you will walk with an air of confidence that is immediately apparent to others.

You’ll know you’re doing it right if men ask you for your phone number and bitches talk about you behind your back.  And for those of you who are already happily paired off…if your significant other decides to treat you to a little “afternoon delight”, you will already have the right gear for hittin’ the rear, ya know what I’m sayin’? Hm?

Remember, the right ‘tude will put you in the right mood.

And, remember what you’re mama always told you…you want to have on clean underwear if you are ever in an accident…or want to snag yourself a hot paramedic.  Either one works for me.

Stay sexy, bitches.

CP.

Focus 52: "Feminine"

Bottom row, second from the right…your Princess, age 12.

From the time I was a little girl, I always embraced being female.  I loved everything about being a girl.  I loved dresses, playing with my hair, decorating my room in various shades of pinks and purples.  I devoured perfume and make up…any of the hand me downs that my mother would be getting rid of in favor of newer items.  I would hoard it, keep it all in a big, pink plastic box with the “Barbie” logo emblazoned on it. 

I was not one of those girls who tried to be “boyish” so the boys would like me.  My nails were always polished.  I always had pretty shoes on, in lieu of sneakers.  My hair was always “done”.  And, for my efforts, I was made fun of, taunted and harassed by some of the boys on my block.  They called me “dumb girl”.

Two things I knew for sure.  I knew I was a girl in every sense of the word.  Second, I didn’t fall remotely into the realm of “dumb.”

Apparently, my father was a John Travolta/Chuck Norris hybrid.

On graduation day from sixth grade, 1978, I opted to wear a full length white lace gown.  I was in awe of the blue and pink satin ribbons running around the garment tiers.  I loved the gauzy material.  I loved the way it hung off the shoulder, like a grown up woman’s dress!  It looked like the “disco” dresses I saw the ladies on the Saturday Night Fever commercial wearing.  I wanted to look like that.  I wanted something grown up, classy and above all, trendy.  When my mother took me shopping for this dress at Lord and Taylor in the city, I was simply beside myself.  I knew I had found my home.  This beautiful, amazing arena they called a “mall” was an amazing play on all my senses.  I could smell new leather.  There were dresses trimmed with sparkle, glitter, rhinestones that shone in my eyes.  Fur coats, for as far as the eye could see, beckoning me to come closer and stroke them.  I remember putting the sleeve of a satin jacket up to my cheek and caressing my face against it.  Fashion, my mother told me.  This is all called “fashion”…and I was enthralled. 

The 80’s requisite glamor shot: Eat your heart out, Joan Collins.

Along came the 1980’s and with that, my love and passion for all things girly evolved.  The hair was big.  The jewelry was ornate bordering on ostentatious.  Deep rich jewel tones, bright neons, mini skirts and huge hair.  I had it all.  I devoured Glamor, Vogue and Vanity Fair as if they were religion, my bibles.  The heels were sky high stiletto’s with ankle socks and opaque stockings.  I rocked them all.  Animal prints were every where making the malls of Long Island look more like a hunting ground for wild game.  My love for all things girly thrived in this era.  I had a killer body and wasn’t afraid to show it off in hip hugging outfits.  I was easily distracted by all the shiny things Macy’s, Bloomingdale’s and Sach’s had to offer.  Even though I was a lover of punk rock and everything rock and roll, my style stayed firmly feminine.  I never traveled with less than six tubes of lipstick and gloss in my Louis Vuitton purses.  I indulged in the latest trends, sometimes spending the entirety of my pay checks on whatever Vogue said I was supposed to be sporting.  Despite being a Jewish woman, and much to my mother’s dismay, I draped myself in crucifixes because Madonna said so.  So it was written, so shall it be done.  It was also during this era that I discovered that being feminine didn’t just embody fashion, but ones own personality.  I took my cues from the likes of Joan Collins, Deborah Harry and Madonna.  Strong, opinionated women who made being a bitch look like an art.  Sexy, determined and daring…this would now be the framework for which I would base my own sense of style.  I started reading about art, poetry, literature, music…because for me, being feminine not only meant slipping on a skirt and stiletto’s, but being incredibly well-read, well spoken and above all, a take no prisoners persona.  This was also the era of the “Supermodel” and I immediately embraced Janice Dickinson as my style icon.  She was brash, bawdy and always impeccable…and therefore, so was I.

Separated at birth?

The 1990’s walked in and with it came the downfall of the glamor goddess and in with the grunge era.  It was a hard adjustment for me.  I was rarely seen out of a skirt or power suit and now, the pages of my bible were suggesting that I put on…JEANS?  And not just any jeans…but…*cringes* acid washed jeans?  Colored denim??  It went against all my fashion sensibilities.  Women were wearing…flannel shirts?  Plaid?  SNEAKERS?  Doc Martens?  Someone even went so far as to bring back spandex pants in capri cuts?  And Dear God, I hold wholly responsible for this disaster, the cast of 90210, who made “rompers” stylish.  Rompers are nothing more than onesies for big people.  Can we please let this trend die in peace?  Ponchos.  Uggs.  Cut off jean shorts.  The “California” look.  Well, fuck that, said this diehard New York glamor goddess.  I was not going to give in on this one.  I was NOT straightening my hair.  In desperation, I turned to Peggy Bundy who maintained her high hair and leopard prints from the 80’s (though, she did totally sell out on the spandex capri’s).  I kept my flaming red locks with the bangs, bouffed up high and proud. I was not selling out to the likes of Nirvana, Pearl Jam and Soundgarden.  (Though, admittedly, in a dark room…alone…I would listen to the music).  Sure, I made concessions.  The chunky shoes.  They weren’t too terrible.  The harem pants (aka MC Hammer Pants), well, they had their place in the clubs and with a cute sparkly halter top and heels, they didn’t look too awful.  Same with stirrup pants.  Paired with a long blouse and a thick belt and some high heels, not too horrible. And while part of who I was as a woman meant sometimes braving the trends that didn’t necessarily please me…I stuck up a long, well manicured middle finger to overalls.  Even if I was a farm girl somewhere on the amber waves of grain filled plains of Kansas, you could NOT stick me into a pair of overalls.  Basically, the 90’s were a fashionista’s nightmare and one I would like to forget.

He said the sun was in his eyes, but I suspect the lack of smile was more “what the hell did I just do?”

Ah.  The entrance of the 2000’s.  The new millennium and of course, the beginning of new trends.  One of the best trends to appear was the low rider jean look.  Yes, because this lovely trend was the beginning of new lingo like “whale tails” and “tramp stamps”.  For those not in the know, a “whale tail” was the v-shaped piece of material that you would see sticking out of a girls ass from the thong she was wearing while paired with low-rider jeans.  And, just when you think it can’t get any less classy, enter the “tramp stamp”, the need for every twenty something (who are now thirty somethings and undoubtedly full of regret) to get a tattoo just over the crack of her ass.  Most men referred to it as “the target”.  I’ll let you people figure out that one.  Some things are just self-explanatory.  I finally allowed my hair to drop down a few notches and wore it long, freer and above all…flatter.  The flat iron became both my best friend and nemesis.  My huge can of Aqua-Net now gathered dust in the back of my bathroom cabinet.  What the 2000’s did bring back was the wonderful dark wash flare jeans of the 70’s and the biker chic look.  The jeans had a taste of the 70’s as well, with their leather tie ups replacing zippers.  The bottoms were not neatly hemmed, but rather, fringed…also reminiscent of 70’s fashion.  Lacy, gauzy blouses, much like the ones I adored and coveted as a 12 year old were now back in style. Black boots with jeans, pointed toe…either full calf or ankle came into style and I adored the look.  Above is a photo of my wedding day.  I chose “biker chic” meets “scared to death husband” for my look.  The make up was lighter, more natural.  A basic “sun-kissed look” that we had not seen since the 70’s.  No more glitterati.  No more huge, chunky jewelry.  Bohemian chic was back and I for one, was thrilled to see its resurgence.  Once again, my faith restored in fashion humanity, I re-subscribed to Vanity Fair and Glamor (though, secretly, I never gave up on Vogue.  They swore the 80’s would come back and while I still wait in breathless anticipation, I trust in them.)   This was also the beginning of my not cutting my hair for the next 10 years.  Trims, sure, but no hair cuts.  I would not subject myself to the chunky layers, the bobs, the streaks, the highlights.  Besides, there was one trend that I had been sporting for years.  It was the one a chunky little guidette made popular on “Jersey Shore.”

Long Island girls did the “pouf” long before Snooki got her first tan.

(Please note the Louis Vuitton overnight bag on the bed of the tacky little hotel we were in.  You can take the girl out of the classy, but you can’t take the classy out of the girl).   Which now brings us to today.  Today, where I am still a slave to all things girly.  I still adore pink.  I love purple.  I love glitter and unicorns and Barbie dolls and playing dress up.  Only now, I wear what I like.  I wear what looks good on me.  If it happens to be trendy, great.  If not, that’s okay too.  I have a shoe collection that rivals most department stores and, if I hang onto everything long enough, always see a second coming of whatever shoe is now “in”.  I dress to make ME happy and not according to the guidelines of a magazine.  (Okay, again…MAYBE Vogue has a little influence, but come on now.  I’m a girl, for God’s sake.)  I buy what I like which, according to my husband, appears to be just about everything judging from our bank statement.  But, what I can say is that although I am now a 44 year old grandmother of two, I won’t go out like that.  I will not get the pre-requisite 50 year old woman hairdo.  I will NOT wear polyester.  I will never buy a matching necklace and earring set.  I will never give in to the lure of open toed shoes with pantyhose.  (WHY, Ladies…WHY???)  Most of all, I will live and die in my high heels.  Blister me. Cripple me.  Give me arthritis.  I care not.   But what I did do…just two weeks ago, was to cut my trademark long locks.  Six inches.  Gone. 

Funky, fresh and fun. I am totally diggin’ the look.

So what was the point of this little jaunt through fashion history?  None, really.  I always find it interesting to see how a woman’s look evolves through the years.  Like, Madonna…then and now.  She’s grown up.  So have I.  But, what remains the same is that strong sense of femininity.  Feminine doesn’t necessarily mean girly.  It doesn’t mean you have to play “damsel in distress” to your “superior” male counterparts.  No, feminine is simply the act of embracing the fact that you are a girl.  A lovely, beautiful, interesting creature that eludes men’s perceptions, confounds them and makes them desire you all the more.  It is a mystery.  It is being strong in body and mind, while having a certain grace at the same time.  It is the ability to rule the world with the gentle touch of a hand.  It is knowing that tears don’t mean you’re weak.  It is the aura that allows you to cry at a dog food commercial and then, go outside and build your children a tree house.  It is the very embodiment of being, divinely female.  An exceptional woman.  A slave to your emotions and then, a master of your domain. While some women see being “feminine” as a weakness, I see it as a strength.  Men have always had their abilities.  The feminine mystique is ours.  It is a trait as unique and elusive as the women who represent it.

Coco Chanel, one of my style icons, once said  “A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.


I think she’d be pretty impressed with the woman I have become. 

Focus 52: "April Showers"

Do you have any idea what I went through to get this photograph for you?

I braved “bee hell” to get this picture. I am NO photographer by any means.  Not by a long shot.  But I was trying to get something that included my two favorite colors, and unfortunately, my two favorite colors were smack in the middle of Bumble Bee Haven (aka: The Reason CP Does Not Go Outside).  I am deathly allergic to bees.  I’m not talking about a little swelling, a little itching, a little “ouch.”  I am talking “rush this fat chick the emergency room STAT” kind of allergic.  My throat swells.  I get hives down my throat.  My breathing and my heart rate slows and then, into anaphylactic shock I go. 

The last time I was stung by a bee, I had to have a trach tube inserted into my throat. I was about 7 years old, scarcely remember the incident, but have the tiniest little scar at the base of my neck where a paramedic or doctor sliced open my throat and inserted a tube that saved my life by allowing me to breathe.  Mind you, this is not the rantings of the drama queen you have come to know and love.  This is some true, die hard shit, People.

So, while Anderson Cooper is braving the desert sands of Afghanistan or climbing through the rubble of Haiti to save some random parrot from harm, I am braving the deep tundra of bee hell to appease the owner/operator of the Focus 52 Project to get you the deep, dark lowdown of the flower situation in the month of April here in Central Florida.

I truly deserve a medal for this endeavor, but will accept your love, appreciation and gratitude in lieu of same.

I also accept Paypal.

Is She Out Of Her Mind Edit:  So, I get my flower picture because naturally, April Showers…bring May Flowers, right?  Obvious choice for a photo, no?  I go over to TwoScoopz just to find out that the next Focus 52 project is…yes, you guessed it.  May Flowers.  Well, I’ll tell you what.  Kiss my May Flower ass, Sister.  I am not venturing into the gaping, bee infested maw of gardening HELL to get another flower picture for you.  You’ll have to settle for THIS May Flower:

There you go.  My work here is done. 

Focus 52: "Variety"

I am a shoe whore.

No, no…it’s alright.  Don’t worry about labeling me a shoe whore.  I’m good with it.  It’s okay.  I have come to terms with it and while the term “whore” is a bit degrading, it is what it is.  I mean, a whore is someone who performs sex for money, right?  I perform sex…for shoes.  Now, don’t get me wrong, my husband doesn’t say to me, “Babe, I saw a fabulous pair of Steve Madden’s that you are going to LOVE.  Price?  One blow job.”  But, if he did say that, I would totally be down for it.  So, in theory, that makes me a shoe whore.  There’s not too much that I wouldn’t do for a pair of shoes as long as it will A) not land me in jail where I can only wear state approved canvas boat shoes or B) will not cross the boundaries of my marriage, disabling my pipe line to fantastic shoes for the price of a well timed blow job.  I mean, seriously, are there many men out there who would say, “baby, for just one quick hand job, you can have these Jimmy Choo’s?”  No, not many.  But, my husband is one of them…and I am not going to disrupt the flow, you know?

So, for this week’s Focus 52 prompt being “Variety”, I have allowed you into my closet, so to speak and pulled out 25 of my favorite pairs of high heels.  Mind you, I said my favorites.  This does not include my ridiculous flip flop collection, my multiple pairs of flats, the tons of heels I no longer wear as they are out of season or fashion, the vast array of sneakers that I own or anything that can be remotely referred to as a “stripper shoe”.  I call them “Over the shoulder” shoes. 

You figure it out.

So there they are.  Mama’s babies.  However this photo does not include my crown jewel.  The Pièce de résistance.  (That’s French, Fuckers.  Someone come kiss their way up my arm and say “Cara Mi!  You spoke French!  And if you don’t get the reference, you are too young to be reading my blog.  Go away.)



Here she is:

Ladies, say hello to “Fifi” by Steve Madden. 

She is my new best friend.  My “sole” mate.  And no, I don’t own a DAMN thing that will go with her, but best believe that I will by this weekend.  I see her and my lady bits throb.  She makes me happy.  We are in love and never shall any other shoe render us asunder. 

Until next season.